Thursday, February 3, 2011

You are Beautiful

I feel that as women, we have a solemn responsibility,
to not only believe those words, but treat ourselves as just that
B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L

Over the past few days, I've been reminded of this sacred treasure.
Last night in the creamery, a rather sketchy guy came into the Creamery at Helaman
{where I work as a cashier}
Two girls, who I assume are students here at BYU, were hanging all over him.
After kicking the spirit out of the store, breaking a box of soda, and using the back shelves as a place to 'touch each other inappropriately' they checked out.

The guy payed with a student id, which surprised me because he had his ears pierced, so I shouldn't have let him pay, but I did, and I regret it so much. But even more than that, I'm just disturbed by the skanky way these girls were dressed. So much make-up, fake tan, didn't look like they ate very healthy, I wouldn't be surprised if one of them had an eating disorder, tight, very revealing clothing, and it just looked like they didn't care how they treated themselves as long as this guy kept paying attention to them.

I wanted to tell them how beautiful they were with out all of that extra stuff, and with out changing their bodies so much, but I didn't. I didn't know what to say, or if it would be inappropriate as a cashier, and I wish I could find them and tell them, that they are beautiful, just them. And that guy was definitely not worth their time and energies. But I didn't.

Today, in addition to thinking about this experience all day, we talked about eating disorders in my human development class. I have an amazing Professor, Dr. Nelson, and the words he said really hit home. I can assure you that I don't have an eating disorder, but I will admit that I like many other women, am guilty of judging myself, others, and constantly comparing myself to them. Dr. Nelson talked to the men in the room, and pleaded with them to not let their actions or words be a cause of a daughter of God doing horrid things to her body to fit into a certain dress size, or look 'better'. I didn't realize this, but apparently its a big problem at BYU.

Proverbs 31:10-31 Reads:

10Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

11The heart of her husband doth safely atrust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

12She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

13She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with herahands.

14She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.

15She ariseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

16She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.

17She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.

18She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.

19She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold theadistaff.

20She stretcheth out her hand to the apoor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

21She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her aclothing is silk and purple.

23Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

24She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.

25Strength and honour are her aclothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.

26She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of akindness.

27She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of aidleness.

28Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also,and he praiseth her.

29Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.

30Favour is deceitful, and abeauty is vain: but a woman thatbfeareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

31Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

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I'm so proud that Heavenly Father loves me enough to let me come down to earth and strive to be a virtuous woman. We are hard working, beautiful, virtuous women, and we must never forget it!

President Uchtdorf said, "Be strong and of good courage. You are truly royal spirit daughters of Almighty God. You are princesses, destined to become queens. Your own wondrous story has already begun. Your once upon a time is now."

Starting now, I promise that I'm going to put in an extra effort to see myself, and all those around me as beautiful daughters of God. Not matter how tall or short, skinny or fat, black or white, we are all daughter of God. He loves us all equally, and that is all that matters.

I hope you know that you are beautiful, and I hope that your husband tells you that every day {I'm so grateful to Jeremy for doing that}

And if you aren't yet married, I challenge you to find a man that tells you you're beautiful every day, and believes it.

This is really cheesy, but I love the song by Bruno Mars 'Just the way you Are'


Ok, enough overwhelming, quoting, and referencing, and rambling on, you're beautiful! I love you all! Never forget your noble heritage!

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Just kidding...

For any of you truly dedicated followers
{I'm not offended if you aren't}
You will have noticed that yesterday I told you it was cold in P-town -- I lied...
It is cold today!
When we got up this morning - which was a little late because I sort of fell asleep after I turned off my alarm so we woke up a few mins before our first classes
{we skipped those... oops :/}
Anyhoo, Jeremy checked the weather - IT WAS -2DEGREES FEELS LIKE -14!!!
What the heck???
No worries, its gotten up to 12 degrees now so everything is great - not
Oh well... life goes on, hopefully haha

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Right now my dream is that Jeremy and
I are in one of my most favorite places in the world -
Hydra Greece


When my family went to Greece several years ago, we went to this little island called Hydra. They don't allow any motorized vehicles, and its so beautiful, surrounded by water
{duh its an island}
And oh its so beautiful... *sigh*
I'm dreaming that is a warm summer's evening, and Jer and I are eating a romantic dinner, and there's soft live music playing in the background, and its just he and I and yeeah... Thats where I want to be right now....

{drool}
Hope these pictures leave you a little warmer than you were before!

Sarah

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Dinner -ahhhh WHAT???

That is right ladies and gentle-folk: tonight I made dinner, and it was really good! yay me!!!!
{You can go ahead an pick your jaw up now}

I made us some fabulous broccoli-cheese-potato soup. mmmmm.....

I realize its not like the most complicated endeavor ever to take place in a kitchen, but it was something healthy, and had substance, and husband is not hungry now several hours later!

I almost went to bed at like 8:30 {i was sooooo excited} but then that whole conscience thing got to me, and long story short I DID THE DISHES!!!
{Even weirder}

Now I'm just trying to get all my school stuff together so tomorrow morning goes better
{I know you're all wondering what happened to the old Sarah, but no, its still me, Sarah Wells}

Hope your lives are F-A-B-U-L-O-U-S!!!!

Luv ya!

It's February - It's Cold!

Good Morning world! {Is it bad that I had to look up how to spell February?.... you don't have to answer that... Its just such a hard thing to spell, because we don't pronounce it Fe-brew-ary, we say Feb-U-ary... or maybe thats just me and everyone else pronounces it right...}

Anyhoo, I'm so happy that its officially February - January went by so fast, and I'm very glad of that. Unfortunately, its SUPER cold out today, and for some reason I thought this morning would be a good one to walk. On Tuesdays and Thursdays Jeremy's first class is at 9:00 and mine is at 9:30, so naturally I don't feel as much pressure to hurry, not realizing he was always late - oops :) Good thing he loves me <3>
{you may clap..... now}

Unfortunately, it is currently 16 degrees outside! What the heck? Isn't February supposed to be warmer than January? We've been having such great weather lately too... :/

Well, happy February, hope it treats you kindly!

kluvyoubye

Monday, January 31, 2011

My Best Friend


I would like to introduce you to someone I like to call my best friend :)
His name is Jeremy {He's my husband}
Jeremy is with out doubt the best man in the world - for me that is!

There are so many things I love about him, its crazy!
Here's a little list:

He makes me laugh every single day

He rubs lotion on my feet and legs - even if he 'doesn't like it' he knows how much I love having my feet rubbed :)

He cleans up the entire house {which should probably be my job...} without me asking him too

He almost always does the dishes {again I need to do more of that}

He makes me realize how much potential I have

He pushes me to work harder and be better even when I don't want to

He is a wonderful patriarch of our home

He tells me he loves me each and every day {at least 20 times}

He painted my toe nails the other day {shhhh..... I'm not supposed to tell you that - but since I did I'll tell you the whole story: I told him a while ago that when I got pregnant he'd have to paint my toenails when I couldn't reach anymore, so the other day he practiced :) and they looked GREAT!}

He's always pitching in with dinner

He knows how to manage $ - which is good, because I don't, and he's teaching me

He keeps me on track spiritually

He holds the Priesthood

He has a current Temple Recommend and he takes me there

He almost always gets my door {he only doesn't when we're like in a big rush}

He makes me proud to be a Wells :)

He's patient with me

He's so stinkin cute!!!

He talks in these really weird voices sometimes and they just make me laugh sooo hard

He's going to be the best dad ever - not only that but he's excited to be a dad

He's a GENIUS

He knows the scriptures really well

He hogs the covers at night.... oh wait thats not something I love about him haha - I love that he doesn't get mad when I fall asleep quickly, or when I'm grumpy when I'm tired, he just laughs along and makes the best of it

There are about a MILLION things I love about Jeremy, but I need to go shower to get ready for work... so I guess thats all for now :)

I LOVE YOU JEREMY

XOXOXOXOX